DISAPPOINTMENT in Relationships

No one truly leaves anyone.
We simply stop thinking about someone.
We stop creating them in our world.
We cannot possess anyone in the obvious way,
for we weave only stories made of desires.

• It's worth investigating the source of these desires. Where they arise, whether anything can truly satisfy them.
• And Who is the one seeking satisfaction in a story about themselves.
• Who is the Unmoved, yet loving every aspect of themselves?
• What are you leaving behind?
• What are others leaving behind?
• Can Love be abandoned?
• Can Love be in separation from itself?
• Examine every concept, and you'll quickly uncover all these lies.

No one can be abandoned by God, for being outside oneself is impossible. It's only the journeying Mind returning Home from an apparent journey. So many Forms immersed in Life, so much play in pretending we don’t know. Deep down, very deep within, everyone knows Who They Are, without all those masks and identifications.

With thoughts, we create this world of our own projections, the painter creates a masterpiece with themselves, and Love in everything remains silent.

• The path to Oneself leads only through Love. There is no other gate.
• You might search the World for that elusive joy, but it always runs out when you're running, chasing your own illusions of it.
• Once you know that attributes of transitoriness won't sweeten this apparent separation from oneself, you'll feel this wave you jump onto unconditionally, carried by the force of the Source.
• When you die as that separate self, it turns out it never truly existed. And you ARE.

Sometimes we pause in the recognition that certain relationships don't serve us, we burn out in them, start to look worse, feel weaker, and disappointment sets in.
Why is that?

• If you invest too much attention (energy) in someone "outside," you might lose your glow. Because that's how it works.
• Nothing outside is real, ultimately it's just your story about it.
• We always talk only about ourselves, not about men or women.
• We talk about how we behave, how we forget ourselves in certain setups, how programs overshadow real insights, etc.
• It's not a matter of men or women, but of personal tendencies, which, thanks to such relationships, can be freed by recognizing the patterns we're stuck in.

I used to be like that. Probably like 80% of women! Completely laying ourselves out on a golden platter, while also carrying and laying it out, and then wondering why, as a result, our object of admiration is somewhat withdrawn. And us, exhausted from the Sisyphean pursuit of a beautiful scenario, fail to notice that this dream has lasted too long and the pain of being cut off from oneself starts to awaken us.

Wake up!

• If you're the one who loves to carry all the burdens of challenges on your shoulders (even if you think you don’t want to, you do, my dear, because you're doing it!) it's time for AWAKENING!
• Look in the mirror and honestly answer the question: can anything outside be the source of my happiness? No way!
• My dear, simply marvel at yourself, because you are AMAZING! Self-sufficient, creative, beautiful!
• If you reflect in mirrors that just feel comfortably in your company, it's time to change that salon. Change your vision.

Of course, we know waiting for a change in the mirror's reflection doesn't work, darn it, no chance, even if you possessed the skill of walking on eyelashes, no and that's it!

What works? Immersing in oneself, focusing attention on the breath and that Heart's voice, which so subtly navigates you always back to yourself. It always works and then often there's WOW! Miracles! The reflection suddenly shows a completely different World! And that strongwoman, tired of investing energy anywhere, disappears.

Free in her vision, without programmed tendencies, she plays with life, and it graces her with fantastic images.

That artificial division, on "women and men," remains simply LIFE, in its beautiful forms. Don't wait for some illusory tomorrow, don't wait for anything! NOW, offer yourself all that admiration and joyful, so light Love, because it's simply You.