Farewell to Narcissus

In the story of love with a narcissist, you step into the role of a seeker of solutions, ways to make him happy.

Why do you do this?

• Because you believe that if he is happy, you will finally experience peace and joy.
• Unfortunately, the narcissistic personality is such a construction of the mind that can only be temporarily satisfied, but will immediately find new reasons to affirm its suffering.

Since the Narcissist was born from feelings of shame, rejection, and not being good enough, these roots will always serve as his alibi to never rise above this construct of conditions.
He is unable to take responsibility for his behavior, as he dreams his images of separation from everything.

• He is the king in his own theater, and others are merely extras or an audience that must constantly give standing ovations and affirm his greatness, which deep down he truly doesn’t feel.
• Since he has never experienced another quality of being in this world, he is convinced that this is the only truth and there are no other possibilities.

The world of our imaginations is an endless story,
but conscious people can recognize its consequences in their lives. Sadly, the Narcissist is a victim of his story and blaming everyone for his state. He is unable to accept real support because the mask created over time of being confident and independent will continuously repeat that everything is fine on his part.

• Driving you mad with his lack of empathy and artificial attempts to play the role of someone incredible, he remains unmoved by your struggle to create real closeness between you.
• He might even appear patient, seemingly unaffected by your emotions, as long as you do not attack his comfort zone and challenge his value.
• However, understanding that he truly cannot feel anything may be the beginning of your acceptance that there is nothing you can do about it, but you can leave it.
• In this entire game, you must recognize that by investing your attention, energy, and thoughts into this persona, you create and fuel it, allowing it to persist beside you.
• He can only flourish embraced by your total devotion and admiration.
• You fade because by projecting your love outward, you forget, or never reminded yourself, that You Are the Creator of Your World, and the source of happiness pulses within you, not in external circumstances.
• Therefore, ultimately, the Narcissist is a construct of your programmed beliefs about love, but through this, you can awaken from this misunderstanding.

Love never had anything to do with the need to sacrifice and save those who are satisfied with their domination over you. You continue to fill them with your passion, energy, and love, creating a void for yourself in this imbalance.

• This story forces you to return to yourself and understand that you cannot play the role of a victim of your beliefs any longer.
• Time won't help, only grounding in the present and a sober look at the facts will enable you to free yourself from the imaginations causing you to suffer and fade.
• Happiness is the consequence of saying goodbye to the belief that everything is more important than Truth and Love.
• By investing in illusions, you become their hostage.
• By stopping in the pursuit of them, you experience absolute Freedom and joy within.

Your maturity means that you stop deceiving yourself
and have the courage to say goodbye to what was never love,
but only entanglement in those scenarios.

Happiness is the present moment,
awareness of Who You Are, harmony,
lack of identification with phenomena and objects of the mind.
Happiness is your natural state,
and everything else is a lie.
Do you want to know the truth about yourself? Maybe it’s time?